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• Walshey

  

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  November 12, 2012 6:08:08 PM WATime

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  Diagnosed 4 Oct - left breast mastectomy 10 days later with axillary clearance, 5 out of 11 nodes malignant. Started chemo on Friday, today is Day 3 & so far I feel OK - just very fatigued & having little waves of nausea reminiscent of morning sickness. I have no children, I'm turning 41 next month. My passions are my life, my relationship with my partner, family & friends, our new home, our dog & riding motorcycles. I've been reluctant to communicate with anyone face to face & have only chatted to Glenys so far, as well as a school friend on Facebook, about her cancer experience. I think that as much as I've begun accepting what has happened to me in the last few weeks, I'm still in an adjustment phase, where I can't yet comfortably label myself. I still just want to be ME, without this. Denial! At the same time I'm extremely optimistic & have met some wonderful medical people on the ride so far. Good luck to all who are now members of this club.

  

  Walshey - 41, no kids, DCIS & lymph nodes, left breast mastectomy

• Cynthia

  

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  November 12, 2012 6:23:20 PM WATime

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  Hi Walshey and we;come to the Click. You will find two other bike riders here Trishac and Cokey who I am sure feel the same as you. You might like to friend them and share your BC and riding experiences and get some tips on both. Glad you could join us and please log on to Click Chat on Wednesday evening to introduce yourself to the crew - in real time. Dont be put off by the quick chat - you will get the hang of it after a while -"everyone speaks(types at once so it can be a free for all. Just put the name of who you are answering in the text and it then flows along fairly well. All the best with the chemo travail and keep ypur fluids up. Warm Hugs from Cynxx

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• Bazz

  

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  November 12, 2012 8:20:04 PM WATime

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  Hi Walshy , im no member of the club , but im pretty close to someowho is . Chemo affects everyone differently , but from what i have learnt here is that , if you hold out against the fatigue , and fight , you end up with a bit of a crash . Loads of great people here , and loads of love and support . differnt personalities also . recently , my lady and i havent been chatting much . Weekly chemo is turning Wednesdays against us . welcome aboard :)
  
• Ness

  

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  November 13, 2012 8:56:07 AM WATime

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  Thanks for sharing with us Walshey! Sorry to hear that you have been through so much but trust you are going to get thru this with the support of a great medical team and some fabulous people here on the Click! Check out all the forum posts about chemo as lots of grat tips. And trust Bazz - take time to rest and let your body repair and get thru chemo without pushing yourself too much! Hope to chat soon. Take care of YOU! Xxx Ness

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• Glenys

  

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  November 28, 2012 5:15:50 PM WATime

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  Hi Walshey ... just wondering how you are going now? I hope the chemo has not been too rough for you .. If you get a chance to join in Clickchat tonight we'd love to catch up ..
  Love & hugs, Glenys xx

  The Click Breast Care Nurse 

• Walshey

  

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  November 28, 2012 6:05:05 PM WATime

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  Hi Glenys - well I thought my first session was a breeze at first. I had only very mild nausea in the first couple of days, Days 3 & 4 I was fatigued but that was about it. Then I got some very bad news - had to race down to Bunbury last Monday (19th Nov) as my Mum was in hospital - she passed away at 5pm that evening. After making funeral arrangements with my family the next morning, Kev & I returned to Perth. I was feeling increasingly unwell with a sore throat, the chills & then hot - temperature hit 38 so off we went to SJOG Ward 35, where I was put on antibiotic IV drips - temp fluctuated up & down, as high as 39.2 & there was some debate I'd be allowed out for Mum's funeral on Friday. Managed to get temps down for 6 times in a row at observation, so they allowed me to go to Bunbury JUST for the service, I got straight back in the car & was back in hospital that evening. CANNULAS SUCK. Ive had a hard time with them. I was discharged on Sunday at lunch time & have been taking things very quietly at home since, because I'm due for chemo session number 2 on Friday. All the nursing staff have assured me not to presume this will be my typical experience; they seem to think I became neutropenic first go probably due to the stress I was under with Mum. So to answer your question - the first time hasn't been easy. I may check in this evening. Thx for writing.

  Walshey - 41, no kids, DCIS & lymph nodes, left breast mastectomy

• Glenys

  

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  November 28, 2012 6:44:14 PM WATime

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  Oh Walshey I am so sorry to hear about your mum! What a terrible blow at a time when you already have so much to deal with. Just so not fair ..
  It certainly can happen after your first chemo where your white cell count plummets - making you very susceptible to infections. I guess by now you've been started on Neulasta injections to boost your WCC, so hopefully no repeat episodes!
  Has there been any talk of a PICC line or port for chemo if the cannulas have been giving you jip?? This may make things easier ..
  Some members here certainly know what you're going through .. Deborah had a rough time with infections and hospital admission not long ago, shkelly just before that, and others too.
  Hope you are able to join in tonight - and chat with people who do understand ..
  Sending loads of warm hugs! Love Glenys xxx

  The Click Breast Care Nurse